{"id":3337,"date":"2025-06-05T11:53:55","date_gmt":"2025-06-05T11:53:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/petrawildoer.nl\/ongecategoriseerd\/silence-is-expensive\/petra\/"},"modified":"2025-06-05T11:53:55","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T11:53:55","slug":"silence-is-expensive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/petrawildoer.nl\/en\/life\/silence-is-expensive\/petra\/","title":{"rendered":"Silence is expensive"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What do you do when you\u2019re completely ignored? <span data-contrast=\"auto\">Do you get angry? Make a scene? Or do you retreat to a corner and cry? What did you think? What did it do to you?     <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"335551550\":0,\"335551620\":0,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">I was surprised. I felt powerless and irritated. Until yesterday, when an email landed in my inbox. We\u2019re going again! I straighten my back and sign up. The red line, take 2, June 15, The Hague. I know full well that my presence or absence won\u2019t make a big impact. But my inner judge is harsher. Staying silent feels like agreeing. And that\u2019s something I can no longer ignore.<br \/>That\u2019s why I\u2019m taking to the streets again. Because the boundary of my conscience now lies closer than my need for comfort.          <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"335551550\":0,\"335551620\":0,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240}\"> <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">And no, this blog is not just about Gaza. Or about politics.<br \/>It\u2019s about choosing whether or not to speak up. About the choice to stay silent. And what that does to you over time.    <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"335551550\":0,\"335551620\":0,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">We don\u2019t just stay silent about big global issues. We do it at home, at work, in conversations with friends or family. When someone makes a cutting remark, and you decide to just let it go. When your manager or colleague dumps something over the fence again, and you accept it as yours to handle. When someone crosses a line, and you brush it off\u2014not wanting to be difficult or spoil the mood.    <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"335551550\":0,\"335551620\":0,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">We often stay silent out of a mix of caution, doubt, and self-protection. Because we want to avoid conflict, we fear judgment or rejection. What if what you say isn\u2019t accurate? Or it lands the wrong way? What if you\u2019re too harsh, or you offend someone?<br \/>What if people no longer find you nice\/smart\/fun\/whatever?      <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Better to stay quiet then. Keep your head down. That feels safer.<br \/>At least, it seems that way. But in the meantime, you\u2019re depleting yourself.     <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">The tension builds, and fatigue grows. You feel a distance between who you are, what you believe, and how you behave.<br \/>And that gnawing question: am I still staying true to what really matters to me?   <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">The cost of silence often becomes clear only later. When people around you have gotten used to how flexible you are. How easily you adapt. How you always think of others. The result? You lose yourself. You get tired of adjusting, swallowing your words, and brushing things off with a laugh. And besides being tired, sometimes you get cynical. A little bitter.        <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"335551550\":0,\"335551620\":0,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">We often talk about setting boundaries as if it\u2019s black-and-white.<br \/>You either do it, or you don\u2019t. And that\u2019s exactly where it can go wrong\u2014because there are many kinds of boundaries. Everyone knows being boundaryless isn\u2019t great. You race past yourself, burn out, and in extreme cases, it becomes downright destructive. Always saying yes. Completely erasing yourself.<br \/>But also failing to manage your own behavior\u2014excessive drinking, eating, binge-watching, etc.      <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">On the other end: overly rigid boundaries aren\u2019t so great either.<br \/>The my-way-or-the-highway approach. You shut down and block everything out. Meanwhile, you risk alienating people and isolating yourself. Before you know it, people label you as a jerk, when you were actually just tired or hurt.     <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">And then there are the murky boundaries. Vague, implicit, inconsistent, unspoken-but-still-expected boundaries. You send signals, but no one knows what you mean. As if people are supposed to read your mind.    <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"335551550\":1,\"335551620\":1,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Luckily, there are also healthy boundaries. I often describe them as a form of tough love. Not harsh, not vague, but clear.<br \/>Boundaries meant to protect the relationship. Respectful towards yourself and the other. Because true connection only becomes possible when you clearly show where you begin and end.     <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"335551550\":1,\"335551620\":1,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240}\"> <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">What kind of boundaries do you set? And what do they get you?<br \/>Are you heard (truly heard), or only when you turn the volume up to ten? Does the way you communicate your boundaries contribute to what you hope to achieve? Or are you mostly trying to minimize the damage?    <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"335551550\":0,\"335551620\":0,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">A boundary isn\u2019t a wall, it\u2019s an invitation to clarity. A way to keep space for yourself and the other. Setting boundaries, speaking up, standing for something\u2014it all sounds good, maybe even obvious, but it rarely feels comfortable. Sometimes it means disappointing someone. Or a friendship shifts. Sometimes, it simply hurts. But the rewards of being honest far outweigh the cost of staying silent.        <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\"134233117\":false,\"134233118\":false,\"201341983\":0,\"335551550\":1,\"335551620\":1,\"335559685\":0,\"335559737\":0,\"335559738\":240,\"335559739\":240,\"335559740\":279}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Speaking up is rarely comfortable, but it does bring you home to yourself. You take the place you deserve. Not with perfect words or untouchable positions, but as someone who dares to stand for what truly matters to you.   <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">So if you feel there\u2019s something that needs to be said about injustice, your work, a relationship, your limits. Start small. One time. One sentence. One boundary. 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