Not a fan of group settings? Or do you prefer personal coaching tailored to your specific needs? I work with professionals struggling with setting boundaries, stuck in career transitions, questioning their purpose, or navigating challenges in their leadership role.

Individual coaching sessions take place at my kitchen table in the heart of The Hague. This is intentional. I’ve found that a personal, informal setting leads to different, more meaningful conversations than a formal office or impersonal rented workspace. It helps us get to the heart of the matter faster. Plus, the coffee is better here.

Evidence-based, not fluffy. My coaching draws on psychological research and proven methods, not motivational platitudes or quick fixes. We work with tools that are grounded in science and adapted to your unique situation.

Honest and direct. I won’t sugarcoat things, but I also won’t be harsh. Sometimes growth requires uncomfortable conversations – those moments where you need to hear something you’ve been avoiding. That’s where real change happens.

Focused on action. Insight without action changes nothing. Together, we create concrete steps that move you forward, aligned with your values and what actually matters to you.

Your pace, your way. There’s no rush. Some people need weekly sessions; others prefer monthly check-ins. Some questions resolve quickly; others take time to unfold. We adapt to what works for you.

Unlike traditional coaching that focuses solely on goal-setting and action plans, my approach integrates personal leadership development. This means we don’t just address your immediate question – we also work on the underlying patterns, beliefs, and behaviors that may be holding you back. Research shows that sustainable change requires both insight and practical skills. That’s why my coaching combines self-awareness work with concrete, actionable strategies you can implement immediately.

Individual coaching is for you if you’re dealing with:

Career & Purpose Questions

• Doubting whether your current job still fits who you are
• Considering a career switch but feeling stuck or uncertain
• Searching for more meaning and purpose in your work
• Wanting to align your career with your values

Setting Boundaries & Personal Effectiveness

• Struggling to say no at work or in personal life
• Feeling overcommitted and exhausted
• Wanting to take more control over your time and energy
• Learning to prioritize what truly matters to you

Leadership Challenges

• Feeling stuck or uncertain in your role as a leader
• Wanting to lead more authentically and effectively
• Navigating difficult team dynamics or conflicts
• Balancing authority with approachability

Personal Leadership & Growth

• Wanting more clarity about who you are and what you want
• Working on self-awareness and understanding your patterns
• Making important life decisions that align with your values
• Developing the courage to make necessary changes

I don’t know you or your question yet, so I have no idea what your process will look like. I don’t work with pre-designed packages or one-size-fits-all programs.

Here’s how we start:

1. Free introductory meeting You reach out with your question, and we’ll schedule a free introductory meeting in The Hague. During this conversation, you can share whatever feels relevant about why you’re seeking coaching.
2. Tailored proposal Afterward, I’ll provide you with a proposal specifically designed for your situation. If I can’t give you a clear estimate upfront, we can work with a coaching subscription of 5 or 10 session hours.
3. Flexible process Your question and needs may evolve as we work together – and that’s perfectly fine. The subscription has no expiration date, so you can return whenever you feel the need for a sparring partner.